Thursday, August 24, 2017

A Day in the Life: Daily Dime

I thought I'd participate in the Day in the Life link party, The Daily Dime (found on Sara's blog) since we are beginning to get into a groove and have some routine around here.  We moved to Surprise, Arizona in July.  Matt started a new job, the kids a new school and I'm embarking on being a stay at home mom for the first time!  Our days aren't necessarily exciting or anything but we are starting to feel at home here.  

Date: Wednesday, August 23, 2017
Cade is 7 years old, Reese is 5 years old, Cam is almost 14 months.
Photos: The point here is to tell about your day and share 10 photos.  I hope that having fancy photos is not a requirement...because I am NOT a fancy photo person.  All my blog pics are of mediocre quality shot in bad lighting with my iPhone 6.  It's how I roll.

Off to school!  School here starts at 9AM, 40 minutes later than in Kansas yet we get out at the same time.  We go to school more days per year but 40 minutes less each day.  It is strange to me.  But it has been nice to have the extra time in the mornings together!  Well, and it's been extremely nice to not have to tip toe out of the house before everyone wakes up or wake everyone up at the crack of dawn to deliver them places before I go to work!  I can't get the kids to sleep in past 7AM so there is plenty of time for a leisurely breakfast and getting everyone packed up.

It took a few days of experimenting but we have figured out our drop-off routine.  We drive from our house to the parking lot across the street from the school where they hop out.  I like to sit there and watch the navy backpack and the teal backpack make it across the street before we drive away.  The car loop line is incredibly long and we are coming from the opposite direction coming from our house so this has worked best.  We do live walking-distance from the school but it is SO HOT we just drive it.  I foresee us walking or riding bikes in the future but not yet.

Cam and I have joined a gym so we usually head there after drop-off for a 9:30 or 9:45 class.  They have really good classes and Cam enjoys playing there for the hour.  I have made some friends that I go to the classes with so that makes it even more fun!  Between the university, the kids' school, our neighborhood pool, our church, and the gym I do feel like I run into the same people over and over and it has been fun to get acquainted with them.  This area is newly developed and growing like crazy so it seems that everyone is fairly new to the area and super friendly.  Or at least empathetic of a move to the desert!

After the gym, we headed to pick up our Wal-Mart grocery order.  I started using it before we moved and am very glad they offer it here!  It's just too easy!  I place my order in the evening (takes about 20 minutes or less) and then just schedule the pick-up for when we will be out and about anyway.    

On this particular day we received a shipment of rock.  10 tons of rock to be exact.  Our house is long and skinny with the garage on the back side of it.  This is a shot down the "alley" that runs behind our house where everyone's garage access is.  About two weeks after moving in we were notified by the HOA that we needed more rock.  Which really meant that we needed rock in the first place because it didn't appear that the previous owners had any along the back or side of the house.  I love spending thousands of dollars...on rock.  Said no one ever.  

We now have rock.  And doesn't this picture just look hot?  Like you can see the heat radiating off the rock in the picture. #desert 

When we returned home from the gym and our errands we ate a quick lunch (leftovers) and then Cam went down for nap.  He's been sleeping a good 2-3 hours in the afternoon and then can barely stay awake past supper!  I think he's experiencing a growth spurt and cutting molars and adjusting to the heat.  #sleepitoff

While he slept I did some cleaning and some meal prep.  Earlier in the week we went to Sam's and stocked up on meat so today I divided it all out into smaller portions to freeze and breaded some chicken tenders to freeze.  I like to keep a good amount of meals in the freezer so I'm building my stock back up after moving.  

I've been a little restless during the day as I adjust to not working.  Right now I'm sticking to a rigorous cleaning schedule just for something to do.  It's like I don't know what to do with myself.  It's like I feel guilty if I were to relax some in the middle of a weekday.  I feel like if this is how I'm contributing to our family now that I'm not working then I must be contributing at all times.  So let's just say I'm still working through how my time looks different now...

He's awake!  So now I can run the loud steam mop/vacuum.  This tile floor will be the death of me.  But isn't he cute?  

Most of the main floor (the entryway, powder room, dining room, kitchen, breezeway and laundry room) is a shiny neutral tile that show all sorts of marks.  I'm still figuring out how to keep it clean!  I'll post some before and afters at some point, but so far I painted the rooms upstairs and then we had the main level and kitchen cabinets painted.  I'm loving the gray kitchen but still needing to get the tile back splash updated.

Eventually I will give up the fight but right now the steam mop and I are trying to battle all the dust of the desert!

Time to go pick up Cade and Reese from school.  The younger grades cannot be picked up from school via the car loop, you must get out and claim them from their teachers directly.  So again we drive up to the school, park across the street and head over to wait in line to get them.  This school is very different then what we were used to in Kansas.  It is grades K-8 and it is HUGE!  Picking kids up is one of the most chaotic things I've ever witnessed.  It's gotten better as the days have passed, but it still is craziness.  So throw in the fact that it's like walking on the sun and this is a very sweaty experience!

We are still trying to work out our after-school-routine.  The kids are beat.  Hot, hungry, angry, aggressive, all the feels.  We have had success with a thumbs up, sideways, or thumbs down system to tell about their day at school.  But beyond that it is meltdown city.  I'm torn whether we dive right into homework, take a nap, do an activity together, or just give them a chance to chill out!  Some days we go to the neighborhood pool, often times we grill or take pizza and eat supper on the patio there.  On this particular day we played with water balloons and guns which somehow turned into soaking in storage tubs...and Cam skinny dipping.  It's like Monday and Tuesday they are alright but by Wednesday, Thursday and Friday they are so exhausted they are just a mess after school.  #OpenToSuggestions

Cam usually takes an early evening snooze while I finish dinner (I try to have much of the prepping done before we get the kids from school depending on what we are having) and then after we eat it's your standard bath, books, bed around here.  Only far more painful than it needs to be because that's how tired kids roll.  Please tell me you know the feeling?

Very much still in the adjustment phase and holding out for cooler temperatures so we can be outside more and not feel like we are on the sun's surface.  But overall much to be thankful for.  Thankful for this journey and getting to experience it all as a family.  Even a family of crazies!

Cam Update

Cam Jam.  Cammy Jam.  Cam Bam Jam.  Cammers (a new one added by Brenley).  And sometimes, okay often, called "that baby" by Matt and I.  

Cam has been our most laid back baby yet--pretty much doing whatever we need him to do.  Stay quiet in the stroller, you got it.  Ride around in the car for an hour picking up everyone from school every single day, no prob.  Entertain yourself during a gymnastics class or basketball game, he is on it.  The ultimate third child.

Even though Cam is such a good baby, adding him to the mix has not been easy.  In fact, adding a third child has been downright hard.  Even one as lovable as Cam.  Now I think there were a lot of other factors at play this past year to create the perfect storm of me losing my freaking mind--but Cam will probably be the scape goat for that one.  Actually, I do believe it was God working in my heart and prepping me to stay at home.  The last year was a blur which helped me to be open to the idea of stepping away from work and attempting to get a grip on things.  But that's for another post...back to Cam!

Cam spreads joy wherever he goes.  With a squinty smile like that, how could you not?


Cam is a well-traveled little dude. He has flown more times than I can count and made an 1,800 mile car trip as well!  He joined Matt and I for a trip to check out Arizona in the spring, came with us when we flew out to meet the moving truck and then made the car ride with us when we moved here as well.  (The other kids flew with my parents).

When we were here to close on the house but our belongings never arrived (promise I will tell that story at some point) we went to Dunkin Donuts every morning for breakfast and to watch TV.

Cam got to explore the house first and even cut his eye open on one of the spindles after being here a matter of hours...probably should have gotten a stitch or two.  Definitely going to leave a mark.

Back to Kansas...hitting up the dance floor at Beth and Keith's wedding.

Posing with the new Mr. and Mrs. Ferguson

We celebrated Cam's birthday with a fairly impromptu gathering at my parent's house in GB.  A huge thanks to my mom who made all the little details of the party come together! 

Papa and G-Mom

Grandma & Grandpa

Gentry and Owen

Cindy, Luke, and Lawson

The thing is that the birthday gathering was held perhaps at a time that Cam would have rather been sleeping...

So even though he enjoyed himself...the pics would tell you otherwise.

The birthday sugar cookies are my thing.  So even though at this point in time all of our belongings were on a truck lost somewhere in California, I had pulled the necessary cookie cutters to keep with us to make the cookies.  However, something wasn't quite right and they ended up black/hunter green and tasting a little off...but let the record show that there were sugar cookies there...I tried!



Let me go back to sleep, people!








Hitting up the park for toddlers in GB

Back to Arizona, this time to stay.  Cam traveled extremely well on the 15+ hour journey.  He cried for probably less than 10 minutes the whole way! 
Low key 4th of July...but HOT!




Cam loves exploring the splash pads here!

Well, really Cam loves any kind of exploring.  He hates toys.  He prefers to just be-bop around and grab things he shouldn't.

The BEST bed head

Drummer in the band

Everyone (attempting) to show off their new back packs.

Cam is my little sidekick this year and we are already having a blast!  We've been baking, running errands, cleaning, and painting!  Or really I've been doing most of those things while Cam sleeps!  Since we have moved here he has actually picked up a nap so he really doesn't stay awake for more than 3-4 hours at a time.  Part of me fears he is narcoleptic and won't be able to go to school or anything because of needing so much sleep!  Actually I think it's just so hot here and he's getting two huge molars on the bottom so his response is to sleep.  He's easing me into this SAHM thing by napping in the morning, afternoon and evening!  (I thought maybe he had low iron levels making him tired but they checked it at his well-visit and said he's good to go, just a growing/sleeping guy!)


Back yard "swimming"--it's hot here, people!!!

Cam is still yet to break 20 pounds!  At nearly 14 months he weighs 19.5 pounds, 20th percentile for weight, 25th percentile for height and 75th percentile for head size.  

Cam, you're a blessing to our family.  I love getting to spend time with you and watch you learn and grow.  You perfectly complete our crazy bunch and we all will always do whatever it takes to get you to smile or give off that infectious laughter like you do!  We love you, Cam!

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Cade Update

Cade Man.  With a love of all things techie and a mouthful of permanent teeth--you're not quite so little anymore!

Cade loves sports--watching, playing, discussing, debating--all things sports!  He has a soft heart, must be bribed into sleeping, desires justice in all things and reminds me so much of myself.  He is crazy-detail-oriented and super observant.  Nothing gets by Cade.  

He may be the most "on the fence" about our recent transition to Arizona...but change is hard.  And it's okay not to love everything that change brings.  It just takes time and is a season of growing and stretching for us all.  Cade has never been an easy-sell...for anything.

Cade played "coach pitch" baseball last fall and loved having an audience at the games!


He loves structured activities of any sort: cooking, crafts, science experiments...this kid wants activities.  


A little action photo of school "PJs and Bingo" night.  Cade was a very proud Scarborough Lancer last year and enjoyed PTA events!

Pioneer fan for life!

Cuddling Cousin Owen

Heading into our Parent-Teacher conference...incidentally I met Matt there and realized the enormous need for me to pick out his clothes ahead of time for these events.

The kindergarten classes put on an excellent Valentine's Day program!


A treat from these cute kiddos! (made possible by my mom, haha!)



Cade for President...or at least for Ring Bearer!


Cade loves "champagne"!

Happy 7th birthday on May 5th!

Family trip to the Royals game for the birthday boy.

We celebrated with a party at the MNU gym so Cade and his friends could play wiffle ball, basketball, and jump in the  bounce house!



In early May I got to join Cade's class on their zoo trip.  It was so much fun!  We looked after Cade's friend, Roc.  Cade sure has been missing Roc a lot lately, which breaks my heart...



Having lunch with Cade at school was always eventful!

Kindergarten Graduation: Cade had such a great Kindergarten experience.  You just cannot beat Olathe Public Schools.  Hear me, people, do not take your award-winning schools for granted!

Mrs. Caldwell was the perfect first teacher for Cade.  She sure gets talked about a lot around here!

Last trip to Deanna Rose


Soaking up the sun at Cousin Keeley's house

MNU Baseball camp in June.  Cade couldn't get enough of it!

Last adventures with these sweet friends!

Silly times with cousins

What a crew!






Cade loved showing Reese all around the Wisconsin Dells with Gmom and Papa.




On our date night to McDonalds. ;)



He is so artistic and can already draw so much better than Matt or I!

I love finding him curled up reading!

New back packs for all!

Public schools look different here...and Cade notices this.  He is being a trooper but I know it's a lot of change for him.  Reese doesn't really have anything to compare it to so she loves school...Cade still prefers Scarborough.  Because change is hard.  But he keeps smiling knowing that soon it will feel like home.


Cade, thanks for being you.  You constantly amaze us with your attention to detail and the thought you put into everything you do!  You keep us on our toes around here but for that, we are so thankful.  We are so thankful for you!  We know God will use you mightily here, and while I want to pray that you will be picked first and have as many friends as you want, I know that's not how I should pray.  I pray that God will give you boldness to be you!