Cade has a late spring birthday so we weren't really sure if we'd be sending him to Kindergarten as a 5-year-old or as a 6-year-old. I was young for my grade and Matt was older for his grade when we were in school. It's no shocker to us that Cade is on the small side (Matt weighed 90 pounds as a high school freshman!!).
Academically, Cade would be ready. He has known his letters and the sound they make since about 18 months. No lie. Proof
here. Also know that this is not really a result of anything that we did other than purchase magnetic letters and the Leap Frog Letter Factory DVD. (My poor 26-month-old second child has no clue about letters and sounds...)
We decided to send Cade to 3-year-old Preschool this year as we felt he was ready for this step and this could help us test the waters as to his Kindergarten readiness. Preschool: Year 1, we will call it, was a learning experience for all of us. We, as parents, were pretty clueless. I'm thankful that Matt is able to do the drop-off and pick-up since I cannot, but this kept me pretty clueless about school and Cade's performance. I am glad that I was able to attend several class parties and special events, despite having to take off an extra hour for round-trip travel time to and from work.
Cade's First Day
My gifts at the Mother's Day Tea...where no tea was served...but I get it.
My handsome date.
Cade's Last Day of Preschool: Year 1...of 3
It's looking like it will be best to do a 3-year-old program (this year, twice a week), a 4-year-old program (next year, 3 times per week), and a Pre-K year (4-5 times per week) to be on track behaviorally and socially for Kindergarten. Turns out Cade's not much of a corporate rule-follower it seems...
Only time will tell, but it's probably better for the start of Kindergarten to be overdue rather than the opposite. I would think there are few that wish they would have sent their child earlier (especially boys) but there are many that wish they would have waited. This is just one of those unknowns that is difficult about parenting. I want to do all I can to set my children up for success. Even if that's completely over-analyzing whether they will be ready for Kindergarten in the year 2016 or not. Seems extreme, I know. So let's just say that Preschool: Year 1 has taught our family a lot. Things we will do differently next year and things that are good to know for the future.
I am so proud of Cade. He's such a special combination of a strong-will and a caring spirit and it is a blessing and a privilege to be his mom. As educators, we have high hopes for our children to love learning, which is definitely not something that can be forced upon someone. So we'll take it slow, and follow his lead, and do the best we know how with our first-born. I hate feeling like he's our "experimental" child as we work out all the kinks of our parenting...but I have a feeling we are never going to be experts at this gig...